There is a saying that the threshold is a door if you have enough abilitytornado tornado cannot be opened, and a hurdle if you don't. Most of the bumps and hurdles in life are caused by insufficient ability. When you have enough ability, you are not afraid of losing.

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For example, if you go to an interview and are not accepted, it is not because the company is exclusive or the boss is snobbish, but because you really do not meet the standards required by others. For another example, if you go on a blind date and the other party refuses to agree after much selection, it is not because he has high standards, but because you really do not meet his standards for choosing a spouse. For another example, if you lend money to someone and he doesn't pay it back, it is not because he deliberately defaults on the debt, but because he never felt that the money should be paid back to you.

Therefore, most of the difficulties and setbacks encountered in life are reminding you that your ability needs to be improved. Just like if you can't even make a fortune of tens of thousands, it means that you can't control the wealth of tens of thousands. If you can't even make ordinary popularity, it means that you don't have the ability to make friends. If you can't even control basic emotions, it means that you are not yet able to face complex interpersonal relationships. If you can't even manage yourself, it means you don't deserve a better life. So, don't attribute all your misfortunes to others, let alone your bad luck. What you need to do is to quickly improve your abilities and make yourself stronger, so that you can get more happiness.

Remember, there is no loss without reason in the world, and there is no luck that comes out of thin air. Everything you get is what you deserve. And what you lose is just what you don't deserve. So, when you feel that life is not going well, you might as well ask yourself first, is your ability not enough, should you work hard to become stronger?

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